For Jah's sake read whole thing before you 'freak out'. If terms like 'White fragility' makes you feel upset, frustrated, confused, defensive or angry you should read this. Using the word white to describe an element of racial privilege is a way of expressing an idea of systemic racism throughout our society, and is not itself racist. It is not racist to refer to white privilege, it is not sexist to refer to male privilege, if you think otherwise feel free, but don't get all defensive, it make things really awkward. Thanks.